visual affirmations and cyber sanctums
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"Sometimes people try to destroy you, precisely because they recognize your power — not because they don’t see it, but because they see it and they don’t want it to exist." — Bell Hooks




examine your intentions.
why are you here?
is your anger self righteous or misdirected?
are you holding yourself accountable?
what are the consequences of your actions?
are your feelings facts, are they a tool for you to win an argument?
are your actions consistent with the love you say you have for another?
what does love mean to you?
is your language mindful of another’s illnesses and traumas?
do you respect another’s autonomy and critical thinking skills?
are your emotions enriching this conversation or damaging it?




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